[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/existuje-obdobie-vzdoru\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/existuje-obdobie-vzdoru\/","headline":"Existuje obdobie vzdoru?","name":"Existuje obdobie vzdoru?","description":"V\u00a0odbornej literat\u00fare, ale i\u00a0u\u00a0mnoh\u00fdch mami\u010diek sa \u010dasto sklo\u0148uje pojem \u201eobdobie vzdoru\u201c, ktor\u00fdm prech\u00e1dzaj\u00fa v\u0161etky deti. \u010ci je toto obdobie alebo forma spr\u00e1vania naozaj sp\u00f4sobom prejavu","datePublished":"2020-10-06","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"tocco.sk\n","url":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d693d76da4b3c2905ed32515295d3c5b2b37600a891f276917d3d592948bcc60?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d693d76da4b3c2905ed32515295d3c5b2b37600a891f276917d3d592948bcc60?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tocco.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279606_w2034_t1601628980.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279606_w2034_t1601628980.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/existuje-obdobie-vzdoru\/","about":["Deti"],"wordCount":707,"articleBody":"V\u00a0odbornej literat\u00fare, ale i\u00a0u\u00a0mnoh\u00fdch mami\u010diek sa \u010dasto sklo\u0148uje pojem \u201eobdobie vzdoru\u201c, ktor\u00fdm prech\u00e1dzaj\u00fa v\u0161etky deti. \u010ci je toto obdobie alebo forma spr\u00e1vania naozaj sp\u00f4sobom prejavu ka\u017ed\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a je \u0165a\u017eko hodnoti\u0165. Tak ako aj dospel\u00ed s\u00fa r\u00f4zni, tak aj v\u0161etky deti nie s\u00fa \u00faplne rovnak\u00e9. Niektor\u00e9 s\u00fa k\u013eudnej\u0161ie a\u00a0in\u00e9 zase nepokojnej\u0161ie a\u00a0viac neposedn\u00e9. So vzdorom sa rodi\u010dia za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa stret\u00e1va\u0165 pribli\u017ene od 1,5 a\u017e do 4 rokov, kedy sa vyv\u00edja detsk\u00e1 nervov\u00e1 s\u00fastava.Drobci si za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa uvedomova\u0165 sami seba, svoju osobnos\u0165 a\u00a0sk\u00fa\u0161aj\u00fa hranice, ktor\u00e9 im rodi\u010dia nastavuj\u00fa a\u00a0ko\u013eko im dovolia. Ich temperament a\u00a0osobnos\u0165 sa nie v\u017edy prejavuje tak, ako by si rodi\u010dia \u017eelali. Asi ka\u017ed\u00e1 mamina u\u017e za\u017eila ten zmie\u0161an\u00fd pocit zlosti a\u00a0bezn\u00e1deje, ke\u010f sa jej die\u0165a z\u00a0ni\u010doho ni\u010d roz\u010d\u00fali, hod\u00ed sa o\u00a0zem a\u00a0nie a\u00a0nie s\u00a0n\u00edm pohn\u00fa\u0165.\u00a0\u010co pom\u00e1ha?Ke\u010f u\u017e nastane t\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia, kedy sa na\u0161a ratoles\u0165 pre nejak\u00fd d\u00f4vod nahnev\u00e1, \u010di v\u00a0hor\u0161om pr\u00edpade dostane z\u00e1chvat zlosti, existuje viacero mo\u017enost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 by mohli fungova\u0165, aby sa t\u00e1to nepr\u00edjemn\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia \u010do najr\u00fdchlej\u0161ie dostala do norm\u00e1lu. Treba len vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165, \u010do plat\u00ed na to va\u0161e.\u00d8\u00a0 nekri\u010da\u0165 a\u00a0neodpoveda\u0165 agresivitou– die\u0165a v\u00a0\u010dase z\u00e1chvatu hnevu v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou nereaguje na to, \u010do mu hovor\u00edme. \u010c\u00edm viac budeme dokola hovori\u0165, aby sa uk\u013eudnilo, alebo nebodaj kri\u010da\u0165 \u010di reagova\u0165 bitkou, v\u00f4bec ni\u010d sa t\u00fdm nevyrie\u0161i, sk\u00f4r naopak. Ak sa d\u00e1, treba ho necha\u0165 pre\u017ei\u0165 si negat\u00edvnu em\u00f3ciu, samozrejme tak, aby neubl\u00ed\u017eilo sebe alebo ostatn\u00fdm.\u00d8\u00a0 uk\u00e1za\u0165, \u017ee sme tu pre neho– die\u0165a v\u00a0hneve pre\u017e\u00edva nie\u010do, s\u00a0\u010d\u00edm sa nevie rozumne vysporiada\u0165. Je potrebn\u00e9, aby sme mu boli v\u00a0tejto situ\u00e1cii nabl\u00edzku, aby vedelo, \u017ee stoj\u00edme pri \u0148om. Ak sa d\u00e1, treba ho obja\u0165 a\u00a0poveda\u0165, \u017ee rozumieme, pre\u010do sa hnev\u00e1 a\u00a0presne pomenova\u0165 probl\u00e9m, pre ktor\u00fd hnev nastal. Die\u0165a si tak bude ist\u00e9, \u017ee viete, \u010do ho tr\u00e1pi a\u00a0pom\u00f4\u017ee mu to upokoji\u0165 sa.\u00d8\u00a0 nepovoli\u0165-niekedy deti svoj\u00edm spr\u00e1van\u00edm len chc\u00fa vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165 na\u0161e hranice a\u00a0to, \u010do si m\u00f4\u017eu dovoli\u0165. Ak die\u0165a nie\u010do chce, my mu to nechceme dovoli\u0165 a\u00a0nasleduje z\u00e1chvat hnevu, nemali by sme povoli\u0165 a\u00a0ust\u00fapi\u0165. Mo\u017eno si pre\u017eijeme jeden nepr\u00edjemn\u00fd v\u00fdstup, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 sa i\u00a0drobec nau\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee tak\u00fdmto spr\u00e1van\u00edm ni\u010d nedosiahne.\u00a0D\u00e1 sa mu pred\u00eds\u0165?U\u00a0ve\u013ea det\u00ed sa d\u00e1 v\u00a0mnoh\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch nepr\u00edjemn\u00fdm situ\u00e1ci\u00e1m spojen\u00fdch so zlos\u0165ou a\u00a0detsk\u00fdm vzdorom pred\u00eds\u0165. Sta\u010d\u00ed len s\u00a0die\u0165a\u0165om komunikova\u0165, samozrejme na \u00farovni, ktor\u00e1 je mu bl\u00edzka. Mo\u017eno si to mnoh\u00ed rodi\u010dia neuvedomuj\u00fa, ale deti n\u00e1m rozumej\u00fa aj ke\u010f e\u0161te nevedia rozpr\u00e1va\u0165.\u010casto sta\u010d\u00ed pred t\u00fdm ako sa ide von, alebo chceme od die\u0165a\u0165a, aby sa oblieklo \u010di upratalo si hra\u010dky len poveda\u0165, \u010do od neho o\u010dak\u00e1vame. Die\u0165a potrebuje vedie\u0165 vopred, \u010do sa ide robi\u0165. Napr\u00edklad ke\u010f sa chyst\u00e1te na prech\u00e1dzku, vysvetlite mu, \u017ee si najsk\u00f4r upracete hra\u010dky, oble\u010diete sa\u00a0 a\u00a0p\u00f4jdete sa von hra\u0165. Ak chcete, aby sa v\u00e1s po\u010das cesty dr\u017ealo za ruku, povedzte mu to e\u0161te doma, z\u00a0o\u010d\u00ed do o\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee potrebujete, aby sa v\u00e1s dr\u017ealo, aby ho nezrazilo auto.Die\u0165a sa \u010dasto t\u00fdm, ako sa sn\u00edm rozpr\u00e1vame c\u00edti by\u0165 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdm partnerom, a\u00a0tak ho bav\u00ed spolupracova\u0165 s\u00a0nami. Ur\u010dite viac ako len po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 rozkazy, ktor\u00e9 mu d\u00e1vame. Ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d by mal pozna\u0165 svoje die\u0165a a\u00a0aj zisti\u0165, ako mu v\u00a0tak\u00fdchto \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch pom\u00f4c\u0165. Potom bude viac vesel\u00fdch det\u00ed a\u00a0aj rodi\u010dov.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Existuje obdobie vzdoru?","item":"https:\/\/www.tocco.sk\/existuje-obdobie-vzdoru\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]